Ten Topics Every Sugar Baby Should Read Up On

Dearest Reader,

Let’s be real — some of these men love to play the “I’m so sophisticated” game. They’ll name-drop Patek Philippe, argue about Tesla stock, and expect you to smile and nod while pretending to care. But a true sugar baby doesn’t just smile — she knows enough to play along and then steer the conversation where she wants it.

Now, I will absolutely address the fact that this article has slightly misogynistic undertones in the sense that not every man is into sports, liquor, and politics. However, there is far more than just that and those topics happen to be the default languages of “power” — and in the sugar bowl, power is often spoken in “man.”

So no, you don’t need to suddenly become an expert on whiskey or watch movements. But you should know enough to decode the conversation, contribute when you want to, and redirect when it suits you. Because being “in the know” isn’t about performing for men or suffering through their monologues — it’s about protecting your position in spaces they think you don’t belong.

This list isn’t about impressing him — it’s about never being underestimated. And God forbid you accompany him to a business event as arm candy, you may find it wise to brush up on a few different topics.

🕰️ 1. Luxury Watches

Rolex, Audemars Piguet, Patek Philippe — the holy trinity. Know that a “chronograph” isn’t a brand, and that “automatic” means self-winding. Ask him if he’s a “steel or gold guy.” Either way, you’ve earned credibility without lifting a finger.

🥃 2. Bourbon, Whiskey & Wine

Learn the difference between bourbon, whisky and scotch, and never confuse champagne with prosecco. If he orders something aged, smile and say, “Excellent choice — smooth, but with character.” (You’re not describing the drink darling, you’re describing you.)

⛳ 3. Golf and Other Sports

Golf is male code for status and patience. Know what a “birdie” and a “handicap” are, and that “the back nine” isn’t an anatomy joke. You don’t have to play — just ask if he’s more of a “links or resort course” guy. Translation: you’re fluent enough to make him talk.

And if you actually like the guy (or want to close the deal), ask him to teach you how to swing — even if it’s just at Topgolf.

For sports in general, you don’t need to memorize stats — just know what’s currently happening. Football, basketball, hockey, wrestling — pick one and learn enough to fake passion. “So, who’s your team?” is an instant ego massage and a foolproof conversation starter.

Just…don’t be like me and ask what inning we’re on during a football game 🤦‍♀️ (yes, I know, I was dumb).

🚗 4. Cars, Car Parts and Car Maintenance

Ferrari, Porsche, Aston Martin — learn these three and you can survive 90% of car talk. When in doubt, ask, “Is it a V8?” Men love to explain engines. Smile, sip, and let him.

💼 5. Business & Finance

Know the difference between stocks and crypto, and what “diversifying” actually means. If he says “I’m in real estate,” ask, “Commercial or residential?” It’s a simple question that separates the hustlers from the hobbyists.

You can drop casual words like “portfolio,” “liquidity,” or “long-term play.” He’ll assume you’ve been reading the Financial Times — you’ve just been reading the room.

Now, here’s where things may get a bit dicey… While there’s nothing wrong with mentioning your own business or financial goals, remember to protect your privacy. Don’t mention anything too Googleable — like the name of a brand, business, or employer you are affiliated with — and never use finance talk as an excuse to vent about money. Keep it polished, not personal.

🎓 6. Education (The Polite Way to Brag Without Bragging)

Education talk is a safe, polished topic that keeps things light but personal. Ask where he went to school, what he studied, or if he ever studied abroad — men love reminiscing about their glory days.

It’s also an easy way to share a bit about yourself without oversharing. Mention a major, a favorite class, a scholarship, or an internship — just enough to show you’re accomplished without turning the dinner table into LinkedIn.

If you studied abroad, bring it up naturally: “I spent a semester in Florence — the espresso ruined me for life.” Elegant, effortless, and suddenly you sound worldly.

Education talk lets you gauge intelligence, ambition, and values without asking anything too personal. 

🎶 7. Music and Instruments

Music is one of the easiest ways to connect — it’s emotional, timeless, and tells you everything about someone without them realizing it.

Ask what kind of music he listens to when he works or relaxes — men love sharing their playlists like they’re personality tests. If he’s into classic rock, jazz, or blues, smile and say, “You’ve got old-soul taste.” If he’s into something more modern, ask how he discovered it — they eat that up.

If you play an instrument, even better. Mention it casually — “I used to play piano” or “I took violin for a few years.” It gives you a soft, refined edge and makes you instantly more intriguing.

And don’t forget: good music knowledge doubles as ambiance control. If you’re ever in his car or out to dinner, suggesting the right playlist or genre makes you look cultured — and in control of the mood.

🎨 8. Art and Architecture

You don’t need an art history degree — just know that Basquiat is edgy, Monet is romantic, and “mid-century modern” isn’t a cocktail. Men love when women appreciate taste.

🧳 9. Travel & Leisure

Learn the difference between Mykonos and Santorini, Amalfi and Capri. Know at least three luxury hotels — The Ritz, Four Seasons, Aman. It’s not about being there; it’s about sounding like you belong there.

Ask where he’s traveled recently or what’s on his bucket list — men love to talk about their adventures. Whether it’s a golf trip to Scotland or “business” in Dubai, listen for details. It tells you everything about how he spends, how he relaxes, and how he treats company.

And if he hasn’t traveled much? No problem. Talk destinations you’d love to visit — it plants the idea of shared experiences before he even realizes it. ✈️

🗞️ 10. Current Events/Politics

Okay, I know this can get controversial fast — but you don’t need to debate policy to stay informed. Just know which countries are making headlines, the most recent natural disaster, and at least one thing happening in tech or finance. It’s less about opinions and more about awareness.

Now politics… proceed with caution, but pay attention. These conversations are goldmines for spotting red flags. You can overlook a lot of differences, but when it comes to women’s rights, it’s non-negotiable.

If he doesn’t value reproductive freedom, privacy, or consent, that’s not a difference in “opinion” — that’s a difference in morality. And let’s be honest: if he doesn’t respect those rights, he doesn’t deserve to be in an intimate setting with you

Considering that sugar babies often deal with things like stalking, revenge porn, and stigma, his political stance on women’s safety and autonomy says everything. One wrong answer, and he’s getting blocked and deleted.

🎀 Final Word

Knowledge is leverage. You don’t need to know everything — just enough to hold a conversation. Because in the end, power isn’t about pretending to care about his world — it’s about making him want to include you in his.

Stay sexy, classy, and sassy

XOXO,

-The SugarBow Society